Raleigh, North Carolina, United States
Body type:
A few extra pounds 
5' 10" 
A little gray 
Caucasian (White) 
Living situation:
With roommate(s) 
Social Setting:
The life of the party, Somewhat shy, Home body, Flirt, Better in small groups, Comic relief 
TV watching:
Dramas, Movies, Sitcoms 
Home and family
Marital status:
Single / never married 
Have kids:
Want (more) kids:
Professional life
College grad 
Employment status:
Minimum Age:
Maximum Age:
Online social interaction (messaging, chat, etc.), Activity partner, Casual dating, Friendship, Fun, I'll play it by ear, Long distance relationship, Long term relationship 
Sense of humor:
Friendly, Dry / Sarcastic, Campy / Cheesy, Goofy, Slapstick, Obscure, Raunchy, Other 
Arts, Community service, Cooking, Crafts, Dancing, Family, Health / Fitness, Listening to music, Movies, Photography, Politics, Reading, Religion, Theater, Television, Travel 
More about me
In my own words:

This Christmas, I sent a message to my brother Jeff and his wife Pam along with an Amazon gift card, joking: "What is wrong with this younger generation, Jeff? 'Cheyenne Love I’m 19 I would try dating a older man Alana Burns Cheyenne Love please cap it at 25 @Alana Burns Nope. I'll date whoever I damn well please.'

Jeff married Pam when he was twenty-six and she was nineteen.

I'm kind of like a professor. I like to write a lot and open people's minds. If you don't like to read a long profile, you're not the girl for me.

I'm ready to have a relationship, get married, and have lots of kids right away. But not with a thirty-year-old woman. With an eighteen-year-old or nineteen-year-old woman. Not with just anybody. With somebody I am head over heels in love with.

My brother married a sexually inexperienced nineteen-year-old girl when he was twenty-six. He fell head over heels in love with her. They're still in love, still hold hands. My best female friend was sexually inexperienced before marriage and got married when she was nineteen. They have eight kids. Why couldn't I find a nineteen-year-old girl who is a) sexually inexperienced and b) ready to get married like that?

Where do you find a girl like this when the average girl starts having sex when she is 14 and when 85% of girls have already had sex by age 19 and then they want to shack up and play around until age 30 when they finally lose interest in sex and want to settle down and get married and have one or two kids?

When I was fourteen, fifteen and sixteen, I missed out on all that "fun" because I was so shy. And I wouldn't have had sex before marriage anyway because I believed in romantic love and finding that one special person and not just f***ing some girl I never had any intention of spending the rest of my life with.

Look at Joe and Angela. They shacked up for five to ten years together and now they're separating because she wanted to get married and have kids and he didn't. Why would I want somebody like Angela now? Now she's sexually experienced and as boring as your grandmother. Now she's near thirty. Now she has all these memories of Joe. I could never fall in love with someone like Angela.
"Our Last Video"

When I was sixteen or seventeen, I was a lot like this girl:
"I love the fact that you are so shy. It's so endearing."
"I don't think you have any idea how good you are"

I guess I'm still a bit like this. I'm fascinated by girls like this. Thirty-year-old women simply are not endearing like this. They're way too jaded.

When I went to college, I thought I'd find somebody because I was now with girls with similar intelligence and interests. What a surprise college was. Most of the girls were no longer interesting to me because by this time they had already had sex. And besides, the girls my age were all interested in older guys not me. I only had one crush in college. She was interested in a grad student.

In tenth grade I was hazed a lot and felt like this:
"Please help me God. I feel so alone.
I'm just a kid. How can I take it on my own?
My mama's asking me, why I'm always alone."

Or like this:
"I was torn down in the seventh grade. All the things people used to say.
When I try to talk, I say I'm fine. No one really knows I'm lyin'.
Sitting in the classroom... crying, trying to hide it, my face is burnin' up...
How do these people that don't know me hurt me so bad?
I might just be too sensitive, why am I always so sad?
But all day I hide, my sadness weighs me down inside my heart
And if I show it to anybody, they would rip it all apart
No I'm not paranoid, just grown to be aware...
What do they want? I see the trick. I see the trap.
I can't go on. Hide in the bathroom, 'til they are gone....
I was torn down in the seventh grade."
- Sophie Pecora
"TOP 5 Kid Singer Auditions on America's Got Talent 2019"

Why would I want one of those sexually mature young women who went to all the parties and who from age 12 hurt me so bad?

I was just a shy anxious nervous guy like this:

I have always been looking for a shy sexually inexperienced girl like myself.

Most eighteen- and nineteen-year-old girls today are way too boring for me because they've had sex. Tons of it. It's no big deal. They yawn through it now. A girl with sexual experience is boring to me. They have none of the excitement of anticipation that a virgin has. I would just be another notch on their belts.

As for women in their mid twenties and up, I don't even look twice at them. They've been around the block so many times they bore me. Yawn. Not only that, but now they think they know it all.

Romantic love is bull crap.
It's a complete waste of time.
Society would be a lot better off if we returned to arranged marriage at young ages.

I'm a male version of "Belle" in the movie "Beauty and the Beast".
Just like she was utterly bored with all the men in her small provincial town, especially "Gaston", so I am utterly bored with all the women on here. Especially sexually experienced women. Is there no one on here who is sexually inexperienced like "Belle" because she finds the typical man simply boring as f...? That's the kind of young woman I go for.

Learn about ***** and the fact that it is no more lethal than the seasonal flu, about these horrible and unconstitutional and tyrannical and fascist lockdowns, about the doubling of the world poverty rate due to lockdowns, and about this horrible new "vaccine" which will take you to your doom.
Now my sister has risked her life by taking it.
I could have warned her better if I had only studied all this sooner.

It's all very depressing.

One young woman here says this on her profile: "Dislikes: Someone that's too serious."

I am PROUDLY "too serious".

Pollyanna (definition): "an excessively cheerful or optimistic person."

Focusing on trying to be someone you are not, trying to be this Pollyanna kind of guy who is not "too serious", who is "good at small talk", who is always joking around and flirting, to find someone, or falling in love with someone, causes you to lose your compassion for people and your passion in life. My passion in life is helping people. I can't focus on that if I'm running around flirting with women trying to find somebody.

After eight months I've only fallen for one young woman on here. I don't fall in love with sexually experienced women. They seem like little old ladies to me.

But that's who I'm stuck with here and in real life. I bet 98% of the young women I come into contact with here are sexually experienced.

It takes a tremendous amount of time to search for attractive women and then take the time to write intelligent messages to them, and then to vet them and find out whether they would be suitable companions. These are things that used to be done by one's parents and matchmakers and marriages used to be arranged for men (e.g. "Saint" Augustine) who didn't have the time to go hunting for someone. All this time spent takes you away from your passion in life which ought to be your focus. Not only that, after losing your passion, you look dumb, you become less attractive to any potential mate.

If a marriage had been arranged for Elliot Rodger at age thirteen like one was arranged for Gandhi, he might have ended up more like Gandhi rather than becoming a mass murderer.

I have an IQ of 137-140 based on my SAT score of 1400. This makes me more intelligent than 99.2% of the population.
(I'm not bragging, I'm explaining where I'm coming from.)
It also makes me extremely bored by the typical woman.
Especially sexually experienced women.
Especially the typical society woman or socialite my age.
They are utterly conventional and boring. Whatever the crowd believes, they believe. They can't think outside the box. They are nowhere women. "He's a real nowhere man, living in a nowhere land... Doesn't have a point of view..." - The Beatles, "Nowhere Man"
Sexually experienced young women today are just as boring. They follow the crowd. They are utterly conventional and boring. They started having sex just because everybody else is doing so. They started having sex just so they could please somebody. Some of them started having sex just to get it over with. They did it with somebody they didn't care for all that much. They just wanted to be accepted by their little social clique of girl friends. This just shows their cowardice and lack of individuality and inability to stand up and be themselves.

Sexually experienced women are particularly boring to me because there is nothing to explore. There's no mystery. They are not fascinating to me like a sexually inexperienced woman is. They have already been explored.

I get sexually experienced women all the time fall for me and want to f*** me.
And I am friends with some of them.
I don't hate anyone if they are sexually experienced. I have good conversations with some.
But to be honest I don't fall head over heels in love with any of them.
Sexually experienced women are just too dull!

I'm stuck with having to be around sexually experienced women all the time because those are my co-workers, the people I see in the places I go. I'm bored to death.
99% of women my age are sexually experienced. 90% of women over 18 are sexually experienced.
Sexually experienced women fall for me all the time.

If I see someone fall head over heels in love with me, it's an immediate turn off for me. I think every woman who falls in love with me is a complete idiot.
If a young woman sees me fall head over heels in love with her, it's an immediate turn off for her. She thinks I am a complete idiot. I look like a fool, act like a fool.

That's what's wrong with having a "crush" on someone.

Look at "Beauty and the Beast".

This whole story of Belle falling in love with a recluse is nonsense. How many women fell in love with the Unabomber who lived in a shack in Montana all by himself?

How many women fell in love with the recluse Elliot Rodgers?

Tons of these idiotic women have "fallen in love" with "Gaston".
He could have his pick of the whole lot of them.
But he doesn't want any of them.
He wants the only one who doesn't want him.
Belle, the one who is hard to get.

That's why romantic love never works.

Except maybe in a few rare cases.

Like my brother was twenty-six and fell head over heels in love with a nineteen-year-old college coed who had never had sex and they got married 8 months after meeting. They have been in love ever since. They still hold hands all the time.

That is the only kind of relationship I want.

Find me one young woman here on this website who is nineteen and hasn't had sex yet and who is willing to get married right away.

Women nowadays all want to fool around and wait until they are thirty to marry and have kids.

I never ever have fallen in love with those kinds of women.

If a young woman is attractive, shy, demure, intelligent, submissive, a little bit afraid of the unknown, of having sex for the first time, innocent, and courageous (showing that she has the courage to stand up to the "in crowd" and to peer pressure that tell her to have sex with just anybody just to get it over with), I have a very high probability of falling head over heels in love with her.

I'm fascinated by inexperienced young women.

Sexually experienced women are not shy, not demure, not submissive (as evidenced by the fact that they are brash and send me naked pics that I never asked for and say "f*** me daddy" which they also say to a hundred other guys probably), and certainly not afraid of sex any more now that they have lost their virginity.

I've spent way too much time on here flirting with and joking around with experienced women.

It's a waste of time.

Sure I like to travel and watch movies and all that crap but who cares?

Sure I have a great sense of humor and can be the life of the party at times but who cares about that crap?

I like to flirt and joke around with girls on here. I like to make friends. At some point I want to get into a relationship and marriage to a nineteen-year-old girl like my brother did..

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