Northfi

I'm nice, kind, calm, loyal and honest family oriented man. I like nature, doing sports occasionally when I have time from my everyday life and routines. I have two children (not small. . . 16 and 18 years old) from my previous marriage and they live part time with me. Basically as much as with their mom. They are the lights of my days, but still I crave for a nice woman next to me.

I enjoy ice and roller skating, hunting, fishing, hiking, evenings with friends, listening to music, and spending time at my summer cottage.

I'm serious about finding my love for the rest of my life, so I will do my best to describe what kind of life I love to live. I would hope that you could enjoy your life with these simple things with me. I'm not asking that we should be a perfect match, that would be just a fantasy : ) I like woman who dares to be a woman. . . wear and act like one. I mean that for example she likes high heel shoes, skirts. . . I just can imagine hearing your shoes clicking and coming closer to me wearing your nice summer dress with a nice smile on your face and giving me a lovely hug and kiss... just because you are happy with me. And I dream that sometimes when I'm coming home, I could just smell some fresh baking and see you in our kitchen... I would hug you from behind, giving tender kisses to your neck.

Or maybe some cold and dark winter evening we open a bottle of wine and make some plans for a small trip next summer with the whole family... maybe somewhere up north to enjoy nature and its peace... or maybe down to south to enjoy amusement parks and zoos. Or maybe we take the weekend off and just you and I would go somewhere.

Here and there I would surprise you with a candlelight dinner. I'm not good at cooking at all : ) but I will surely do my best and put effort to satisfy your taste and appetite : ) I enjoy family traditions, going into the forest as a family to get Christmas tree, playing sports games with friends, midnight summer parties with family and trying to make a bigger bonfire than last year : ), etc. And I would so much like that we could make our own traditions together.

Unfortunately life is not just about fun and enjoyment, it is also work, problems, and everyday routines but still I like those days too. Every single day in life doesn't need to be super special. We can also just sit on the sofa, watch a movie and cuddle. We can enjoy each other's company with cooking together or with kids and have a nice dinner with wine and chat... planning and dreaming our family future together, and reminisce about what we have done so far. . . remembering our good old times together.

I like to do things together with the kids. . . sometimes we cook together, play outside, play board games, Wii... so on. I enjoy cold and dark winter days... it brings a cozy and romantic atmosphere. I enjoy spring with its first rays of bright sun and fishing trips to the small lake next to my summer cottage and doing cross country skiing. I enjoy summer with all bright nights with its warmth and good times in a summer cottage. I enjoy autumn too when hunting season starts and how nature is slowly going to darker and colder.

I love sex, it should be more than jumping in the bed for ten minutes and that's it. I like it with passion, experiencing new things and valuing each other's wishes and desires. It should be much more than vanilla. It is rare to find one who understands the meaning of this and it can lead to a bit of confusion and disappointment. Let me explain a bit more about this. It means that you should be sexually very kinky , the more perverted the better, with a wide and wild imagination. You like to be sexually dominant. Or maybe you like to be both . . . dominant and also submissive depending on your mood ? You don't need to be experienced, but must be interested and curious about this topic. I suppose that's why I'm still single. It is difficult to find someone who is single and interested in those things : ) Anyway, sorry such a long description about that topic.

I also love to sleep close to you. . . your head on my chest. I love to smell your hair before falling to sleep. I like lazy weekend mornings. . . seeing your smile, feeling your touch and kiss which tells me that you are quite happy with me, and you want to stay in bed a few moments longer and cuddle a little bit before going to make morning coffee. My happiness comes from these things, and I'm wondering if there is a woman who would also get her happiness with me from these small things in life.

I'm sorry for such a long essay and introduction : ) . . . wondering would you read all of that ? :D But I just tried to describe the kind of person I am and what I enjoy. Maybe this way we can save our time to know whether we match or not. I'm not much into long term email exchanges. I hope that we could view each other through a cam (chat/talk) and get to know each other better that way. When we both feel comfortable with, we could meet in person (I can travel to meet in person, or you are welcome to visit here) and see if there is the necessary chemistry between us. I want both of us feel warm, attracted and passionate toward each other. Also I should tell that I am partially bald, can't see it so well in my pictures. Maybe someday I will be totally bald. I just wanted to let you know this because some women don't like bald men.

And what do I expect from you ? You are honest and loyal. You are willing to relocate. You like a peaceful lifestyle. You are willing to cam with me so that we both see that the other is a real person. You are mentally healthy. You are able to chat/talk about our sexual compatibility because I want much more than people 'typically' want. I like a lot of different things (bdsm, different fetishes, sub/dom, you like to be sexually dominant, etc.. . lots of different things). If that's not you, then let's not waste our time. I am happier as a single guy than in a relationship where important things for me don't match. If you are still reading and thinking yes that's me. . . don't wait but send me a message. : )