I just signed up. Why can't I contact other members?

It may take some time (anywhere from a few minutes to 12 hours) for the administrator to manually approve your account and profile photo. You will receive an email after the approval process has been completed.

Why is my picture back on my profile after I delete it?

It's a violation of the Terms of service to delete your profile picture. Please read the terms for more information about profile picture requirements.

Why can't I deactivate my profile/account?

Only members in good standing have that privilege. If you don't log in for at least 90 days your account will be deactivated and deleted. Please read the Terms of service for more information.

What is a member in good standing?

A member in good standing is any member who meets the following qualifications:

  1. Has a valid, approved profile picture on his or her profile.
  2. Has a valid, working email address on file.
  3. Has not posted defamatory remarks about this website, its administrators, moderators, or employees.
  4. Has not violated the Terms of service in any way.

Why can't I edit my profile, change/delete my picture or contact other members?

Most likely your account has been frozen indefinitely for a major violation of our TOS.