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Spotting a fake profile & catphishing

I've been surfing the internet over 30 years and along with degrees in Computer Science, Technology and Graphics, I know my stuff. For the last 10 years I have roamed through many dating sites and have had my share of the typical scammer. Which is someone who is only talking to you (by chat, email, app) because their true intention is to ask you for something (money, tickets, visas, phone cards, ect.) I know many who have fallen for these scammers, I as well. Here is a short list of things…

10 second Videos

For the guys and gals out there, a good way to interact is video. If you shot a video for some one, make it custom for that person, mention their name (no pet names which you call every potential mate, because your to lazy to learn their name or do multiple videos.) Give them a 10 second glimpse into your life for that day. Show them your dinner, men and women can show off there cooking skill. Tell them your getting ready to read a certain book, or watch a certain movie, and maybe they will do t…

Yeah? Young Women, what about them? They are Absolutely Fantastic!!

Young women are AWESOME!!! That fact should be obvious to ANY red blooded male. The Big Construction Man in the sky did a great job making them just right. If any of you have a problem with me calling the Lord, the Big Construction Man in the sky, it's not mine! I was an altar boy , not an angel; but I digress.And yeah, I fed the homeless bums via a church food pantry for 15 months and 2 weeks. Which again, along with $2.35 will get me a cup of coffee where they sell it for $2.35! Don'…

Age gap reality check

what older gent wouldn't jump at the chance of having some nice young woman showing interest in a may-december relationship? Or for all you BSDM fans being a daddy dom with a little. Either one strokes our ego. But lets face it. There are stresses on these young lovely ladies that older males try to ignore or deal with. The fantasy out weighs reality. The reality that these sweet young ladie's mother and father have no idea their little innocent princess might be involved with a man (o…

Posting Personal Information in Public Areas

Going forward, any member who posts any personal information about another member in any public area (comments, timeline, blogs, any other public area) will be immediately removed from this site and his or her location will be permanently blocked. It does not matter whether you believe the profile is real, there is no way you can know. Personal information can include the member's name, email address, postal address, telephone number, or any other information that is not included and shown…

Just in thought

I get a lot of questions as to why I love the older crowd! I prefer that because in my generation socializing, Dating etc just is not the same! There is no value to it. Everything moves so fast whereas in an older generation there is more humbleness, more courting more genuineness! I have had interactions with the older crowd and its always been pleasent. The conversation was more realistic and the surroundings where calm. I felt wonderful! I got complimented which made my day I also got a chanc…

My Friend Married Woman 45 Years Younger!!

I have a friend who at age 72 decided to leave the United States and retire in Costa Rica. Shortly after settling in, he met a 28-year-old lady. She was not looking for green card or to come to the United States. As a matter of fact, she had a visa and did visit the United States before she even met my friend. She was a professional lady who was at the early stages of what has been developing into a successful career. She loves her own country, so she was not seeking a way to the USA. After they…

Online Dating Tips for Success

Did you know that one out of every six marriages in the United States originated online? Market research has shown this to be true. In fact, 30% of couples now meet online. Those are impressive numbers, but online dating is also time consuming and very competitive. You can be more successful with online dating if you are informed. This post will give you some good tips and information to help you succeed in your quest. Photos This is the most important part of your profile. If you don't hav…

if youre new here

hi guys, just a few ideas from an "old timer"just remember posting on a lady's wall isn't private, so if you're planning on talking to more than one person, and are going to put some intimate language in the message, why not send a message and keep the conversation private, or add as friends for a chat. putting these messages up for the whole world to see doesn't make the girls feel special especially if you're posting similar messages to 2 or more people.same…

Frivolous Member Reports

Please don't waste your time or mine with frivolous member reports. Some of the reports I receive are obviously filed because the member being reported won't communicate with the member doing the reporting. If another member won't respond to you, he or she is obviously not interested. Instead of filing a report or becoming upset over it, move on and make friends with someone else. Member reports MUST include proof of what you're reporting. If the member has violated the terms…

Explicit Sexual Messages in First Contact

It should go without saying that explicit sexual messages in the first contact is forbidden as is any unwelcome sexually explicit conversation. Please strike up a conversation and initial friendship with the other individual and then see where it leads. Gentlemen, let the ladies take you there if that is where they choose to go. The ladies have all of the control in that regard.First offense: Warning and all sent messages deleted, regardless of content.Second offense: Say bye.

Any real women on here?

I know that this is a free site... but to be honest I have not seen one single real female in the US here? is it just me?

New and curious

Hey there! I'm new here and am curious what some of the regular users think of the sight? (Male and female opinions are welcome). I'm from Australia and have noticed (in my quick searches so far) there's mainly US girls on here, not many from my country. Hopefully American girls, and other nationalities, don't mind guys contacting them from such distant places? Any women who have thoughts on this are welcome to respond. Cheers.

cock shots part deux ( the other way)

And as has been pointed it, this swings both ways.Ladies, be bold, but be tasteful, and if you want to send nudes, send them to the man/woman in question, not post to the world.One lady i was chatting to said she likes to be tasteful even when risque, so let's try keeping in this way, and thanks for the reminder ( you know whom)

cock shots

No...please...noCan you put those in your imgur account or go on reddit gonewild, but not post here for all and Sundry to see.Keep it private with a girl if she asks, or keep it in your trousers...